Chuan b hon nhan

can lam ro ban tnh cua hon nhan

 

c Hong Y Nichols: Chuan b hon nhan can lam ro ban tnh cua hon nhan.

Hong Thuy

Dublin (Vat. 24-08-2018) - Giao hoi can on tiep cac oi chuan b hon nhan va ong thi trnh bay quan iem ro rang ve b tch nay. c Hong Y Vicent Nichols, Giam muc Westminster, Anh quoc, a nhan manh ieu nay trong bai thuyet trnh tai ai hoi cac gia nh the gii.

Hom 23 thang 08 nam 2018, trong bai phat bieu tai ai hoi cac gia nh the gii ang dien ra tai Dublin, Ailen, c Hong Y Nichols noi rang hon nhan c am re trong tnh yeu cua Chua va la cach dien ta s trung thanh va ket qua cua tnh yeu Chua."

B tch hon nhan c noi ket vi tnh yeu Chua Kito danh cho Giao hoi cua Ngai, bao gom ca hy sinh, tha th va cha lanh. c Hong Y nhan xet: "Giao huan cua chung ta la mot quan iem phong phu, cung cap tat ca nhng ieu chung ta muon chia se vi nhng ngi bat au i song hon nhan."

e cap en van e chuan b hon nhan, c Hong Y Nichols a ra nhng li khuyen giup cac giao x co the giup cac oi v chong on nhan quan iem cua Giao hoi, ngay ca khi oi dien vi quan iem tuc hoa ang gia tang va chu trong en ky nghe hon nhan.

Li mi goi thanh thien

Theo c Hong Y giao chu Anh quoc, nen tang cho viec chuan b hon nhan phai la mot s tap trung vao li mi goi tr nen thanh thien cua Chua. Nh c Giao Hoang Phanxico a viet trong tong huan "Han hoan nhay mng", s thanh thien co the phat trien ngay ca thong qua cac hanh ong nho hang ngay - nhng khoi a xay dng i song gia nh. Li mi goi nay nh hnh cho cac hoat ong chuan b hon nhan.

Chua Thanh Than la ang hng dan au tien cua oi v chong

c Hong Y Nichols lu y rang viec chuan b hon nhan cung can bao gom nhng cach dien ta s lien i vi oi hon nhan, e ho khong cam thay co oc trong hanh trnh ha hon va hon nhan cua mnh. Nhng ngi hng dan hon nhan cung nh can khiem nhng va tn thac vao n Chua, nh rang Chua Thanh Than se la ngi hng dan au tien cua oi ban.

V chong cau nguyen vi nhau

c Hong Y khuyen cac linh muc nhan manh en tam quan trong cua viec cau nguyen khi day cho cac oi ban hoc cau nguyen vi nhau bang Thanh kinh.

Viec gap g nhng oi hon nhan ln tuoi hn co the la mot viec tot cho cac oi ban nam n ang ha hon khi giup ho t hoi mnh va suy ngh ve nhng cau hoi quan trong ve hy vong va ch mong cua ho ve hon nhan.

Con cai la mon qua cua Chua

c Hong Y cung lu y ve viec can thao luan ve mon qua con cai c ban cho cha me va Giao hoi, cung nh tam quan trong cua nhng quyet nh chan that, sau sac ve viec xay dng mot gia nh vi nhau.

Hoc biet cach thc va ni Chua hien dien

Theo c Hong Y Nichols, cha khoa e hieu viec chuan b hon nhan cach ung an chnh la xem no nh mot hanh trnh keo dai ngay ca sau khi ho ket hon, xuyen suot d an kau dai xay dng mot tng lai vi nhau. c Hong Y chia se: Tren hanh trnh nay, mot pham chat rat quan trong. o la hoc cam thay cach thc va ni Chua hien dien."

Giao x ong hanh vi hanh trnh hon nhan

Sau am ci, hay tm nhng cach thc ma giao x co the tiep tuc on tiep cach chu ong cac oi hon nhan, c hanh hon nhan, va cac s ho tr nh gia tang c hoi, cham soc tre em, e cac v chong co the co thi gian hu ch vi nhau.

Cuoi cung, c Hong Y Nichols ket luan rang khong co hon nhan trung bnh hay bnh thng, moi ngi khac nhau va moi oi hon nhan se i qua nhng giai oan kho khan. Cac oi ban va gia nh can nguon lc va s ho tr, nhng nhng ieu nay ch la c cung cap ch khong ep buoc. Trc nhng thach o, nhieu ngi b cam do hoi. Toi co the b o v, mong manh va thanh thien? c Hong Y noi: "Chung ta co the co cam giac manh ve s that bai, toi loi hay xau ho. Chung ta co the xet rang mnh khong xng ang. ay la ieu chung ta dang len cho Chua, v s thanh thien va viec cua Chua."

 


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